Health & Exercise Forum

It is no surprise that the most common New Year Resolution is to be healthier…eat less, exercise more, etc. However, health is multidimensional! To be truly healthy, one must have a healthy mind, body and spirit! It is well documented and established that exercise and diet contribute to your physical health, and mentally, the brain is healthier by avoiding toxins such as tobacco, drugs and alcohol, while the spirit is healthier by being mindful, spiritual and meditative. Unfortunately, less attention is paid to other critically important aspects of health: the unhealthy impact of negative visceral emotions such as hate, jealousy, and anger.

Considering our present divisive social and political climate in the United States and globally, I find myself in constant search to understand the pervasive hate and division which seems to be, not only prevalent, but acceptable. I have attempted to read books such as “The Science of Hate,” by Matthew Williams,  about the science of hate and survival, “Demon Copperhead,” by Barbara Kingsolver, about those marginalized and left behind, ”The Demon of Unrest,” by Erik Larson, about the history of our national political division preceding the Civil War and its relevance in the present, and watch TED Talks podcasts and television specials such as those presented by WVIA Public Media in a special series “We Stand Against Hate.”

All of this, to no avail! I failed in my effort to understand the unthinkable: We hate individuals whom we have NEVER even met. We hate groups of people through unfounded generalizations. We hate because of color, creed, stature, rank?!?! At the end of the day, I just don’t get it! Fortunately, I was not born with the “hate gene” and may never fully understand. But what I do understand is that HATE IS UNHEALTHY! So, if you want to be truly and completely healthy this new year, work on your hate!

What Is Hate? (Everydayhealth.com Laura Williams)

The word “hate” is thrown around more often than the actual emotion is felt. The statement “I hate broccoli” is rarely accompanied by the strong negative emotion of true hatred. Even strong feelings of anger or disgust are not the same as hate. According to Laura Williams, clinical psychologist “Hate is a profoundly intense and enduring dislike for someone or something. Hate can be tenacious, and often has roots in mistrust, fear, or (lack of) individual power, and vulnerability.”

It can be hard to distinguish hate from other powerful negative emotions that you may be feeling at the same time. Some psychologists say what makes hate different is that it’s directed toward who or what someone or something is, rather than what they’ve done.

The negative physiological, physical health, mental and emotional effects of hate are well documented by many sources including the National Institutes of Health.

Physiological Effects of Hate:

• Hormonal Surge: Hate activates your stress response, releasing cortisol and adrenaline, which raise heart rate, blood pressure and blood sugar.
• Increased Inflammation: Chronic stress from hate causes widespread inflammation, damaging tissues and organs over time.
• Nervous System Overload: Hate overstimulates the nervous system, leading to restlessness and heightened states of alertness.

Physical Health Effects of Hate:

• Cardiovascular Problems: Higher blood pressure and chronic stress increase the risk of heart attacks and stroke.
• Digestive Issues: Inflammation and stress can lead to stomach pain, irritable bowel syndrome and other gut problems.
• Weakened Immune System: A suppressed immune system makes you more susceptible to infections and illnesses.
• Physical Tension: Involuntary clenching of the jaw, grinding teeth and tense muscles are common.

Mental & Emotional Effects of Hate:

• Anxiety & Depression: Hate is often rooted in fear and helplessness, which can fuel anxiety, depression and obsessive thoughts.
• Exhaustion/Fatigue: Maintaining hate is mentally taxing, draining energy and leading to a constant state of agitation.
• Behavioral Changes: Hate can manifest in angry outbursts, violence, or social withdrawal, which can negatively affect relationships.

Ultimately, hate creates an internal state of emergency which demands significant physical and mental resources and leads to wear-and-tear on your entire system. Letting go of hate is a form of self-care that promotes relaxation and long-term well-being.

Tips to Deal With Hatred: (PsychMatters, Joanna Kleovoulou, Clinical Psychologist)

• Acknowledge that you are full of hatred. Examine your prejudices. If you can admit that you are feeling hateful, then you can begin to deal with this emotion and find a solution to the problem.
• Understand why you are feeling hate. Look within yourself and ask why you are upset. Hatred usually comes from a place of fear, insecurity or mistrust.
• Try to catch yourself in your hatred. The mind in its ego state, will perpetuate it by saying confirming labelling statements such as “She’s really such a @*&?*.”
• Stop yourself - When you catch yourself in these phrases, words or actions, stop yourself, recognize that it just feeds your hatred and builds up more anger.
• Take a step back. In the heat of the moment, it can be hard to make wise decisions. Take a break, go for a walk or practice meditation until you have calmed down. Take deep breaths and allow yourself to relax. Once your mind is calm, you can and will be able to control your emotions in a more efficient manner, bringing perspective to your thoughts and feelings.

• Build connections with people outside your normal social group. Volunteer at a local soup kitchen or food bank.
• Deal with it. Instead of ignoring the issue, try to find a solution to the problem. If the situation is beyond your control, try to resolve it in your head by shifting your mindset. You may not be able to change a particular person or situation, but you can change how you think about them. Join “Emotions Anonymous” a 12-step recovery program. 
• Support victims of hate. Speak out within your personal network and through social media against acts of hate. Join support groups. VictimConnect Resource Center 1-855-4VICTIM; National Advocacy Groups such as Southern Poverty Law Center.
• Talk to someone you trust as talking to a close friend, family member or a psychologist about something painful can help to alleviate the negative feelings you are having. They can often offer valuable advice or guidance.

2026 is a great opportunity to be truly healthy…eat well, exercise more and rid yourself of hate!

Visit your family doctor regularly and listen to your body.     

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Paul J. Mackarey PT, DHSc, OCS is a Doctor in Health Sciences specializing in orthopedic and sports physical therapy in Scranton and Clarks Summit. Dr. Mackarey is in private practice and is an associate professor of clinical medicine at Geisinger Commonwealth School of Medicine. For all of Dr. Mackarey's articles, visit our exercise forum!